Halachah
Real minhagim have a halachic power whereas a made-up practice does not
Rabbi Doniel Neustadt
Parshah
By comparing loss, I was invalidating the pain of others "You haven’t been around. Is everything all right?” I hesitated a moment, unsure if I wanted to share, doubtful if my audience could be trusted. “My mother’s sick,” I finally confessed. After the gasp, the “Oh no, refuah sheleimah!” I amended: “It’s terminal.” Then the
Faigy Peritzman