The short answer to your question is: You shouldn’t be doing this
Does a part of you feel they may be on to something?
Will he ever be ready to get engaged?
Should I be concerned that just as he flipped out one way, he could also flip the other way at some point after marriage?
He’s a masmid, but is he a mentsh?,Dear “Wants a Mensch”,He’s a masmid, but is he a mentsh?
Am I setting her up for a lifetime of pressure?,