"What needs to be determined is where does the couple stand the greatest chance of earning each other’s respect"

"Wherever there is unique potential for the good, there is also unequaled potential for harm"

"Rare is the person who can practice more than one approach"

"Our starting point should be that we want to have guests; can we do it without our children losing out?"

"Adulation for entertainers has no place in Yiddishkeit. We revere gedolim. We run after them. We look up to them. We talk about them. But not entertainers"

"A lot depends upon who you are, who your audience is, how effective you are likely to be, and if you know what the Torah-prescribed route of action is"