My oldest daughter, 26, had been dating for many years, and needed a shidduch. I clearly needed to go to a different place in my tefillah. As it happens, I’m an avid frequenter of holy gravesites. So when my sister, Miriam, invited me to join her on a pilgrimage to the kever of the Linitzer-Sokolivker Rebbe, Rav Eliyahu Yosef Rabinowitz ztz”l, I readily agreed to go along.