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“I think the more food becomes a topic of conversation in our homes, the more fixated our children become”
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Whenever I asked about their childhoods, my siblings gave me a “you had to be there” look. But on Purim I could pretend I knew something about it
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There’s nothing that’s not hinted at in the Torah
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I had this idea to try traditional bolognese sauce with sausages, and it was an instant winner!
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Add some pop, dress up your seudah, and pass on the fun with these last-minute ideas.
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It takes confidence to say no to our children
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Not everything my mother writes about Yitzi means that I actually did it
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“If that happened to me, I would have walked straight out,” muttered Dassi. Chayala was surprised at the edge in her voice
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I’m hoping that reading my story has encouraged you or opened your eyes to a reality you may have been previously unaware of
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Whether we’re hiding ourselves in the car, hiding our chocolate, or hiding the supermarket bills, the underlying thread is the shame we feel
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“When I’m learning with talmidim who are learning for the first time, I have to read it on their level”