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You’ve already started in the most significant way. You’ve given her the two foundations for healthy growth — roots and wings

 After all I’ve learned about red flags, please remind me why I would want to get married 

The topic at hand is irrelevant; it’s the vibe underneath that’s important

 It turns out that many of these “rules,” all of which are true, sometimes contradict each other

For dating to be productive, it has to have direction

Important note: You can gauge that far more accurately from what she does than from what she says