Rav Yaakov Kamenetsky: “To stick to one’s principles is indeed praiseworthy. But to know when to break them is gadlus!”
“Let’s be big people and not forget to put Hashem into our decision-making. Be as machmir as you want, but from a place of purity and kirvas Hashem, not from escape and fear”
Chances are, if people are getting hurt or there is machlokes, most chumras don’t apply, but navigating this issue requires daas Torah
“Learning more about male-female styles of communication can be a great way to boost your shalom bayis”
“It’s the job of parents to make choices and we try to make the best choices because our children live with the consequences”
“I think it’s terribly unhealthy for them to get a message that they should be deprived or seen as misfits because their father is learning”
