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How to cope with the Pre-Pesach chaos

Abigail Shrier makes some very good points

Prevent feelings of betrayal by being up-front from the outset

In the case of being afraid of your kids going off the derech, this means that the frightened parent holds an unreasonable and unfounded panic about the child’s ability to face disappointment or other negative feelings without giving up his or her religion.

A gracious receiver makes the giver feel good

It’s painful to rely on others’ opinions