“Whether it’s a hobby, a volunteer activity, or a new job, we need to keep growing. Which will minimize inappropriately turning to our adult children to have our needs met”
“Making sure that we are not involved in abusive relationships is critical. Letting that fear color all of our decisions is debilitating”
“If you’re nervous that you don’t have time to make food for another family, give it a try. Hashem has all the time in the world”
“It hurts so much to never be able to express struggle, pain, or sadness, because I am Miss Perfect”
“Rav Yaakov Kamenetsky famously advised parents not to rebuke their children for behaviors they’ll naturally outgrow”
“If you’re not grown up enough to be able to take the year seriously while still enjoying yourself, please, don’t come”
