“Not every marriage problem originates with mental illness. Not every relationship issue has its roots in childhood trauma. Not every struggling marriage requires therapy”
“Instead of coddling our young adults, why don’t we let them grow up, take responsibility for their feelings, and let them come to the realization that their happiness and contentment depend on themselves?”
“Whether it’s a hobby, a volunteer activity, or a new job, we need to keep growing. Which will minimize inappropriately turning to our adult children to have our needs met”
“Making sure that we are not involved in abusive relationships is critical. Letting that fear color all of our decisions is debilitating”
“If you’re nervous that you don’t have time to make food for another family, give it a try. Hashem has all the time in the world”
“It hurts so much to never be able to express struggle, pain, or sadness, because I am Miss Perfect”
