
He bought me flowers and I made his favorite foods, but the warmth wasn’t there. We were just going through the motions

I grab my phone to open Evernote, but I decide against that; a cheshbon hanefesh needs good, old-fashioned pen and paper: tangible and indelible

To get my feet wet, I decide to leave the largest donors for the end and start with the low-hanging fruit, like my grandmother

How would it impact my marriage if I just stop complaining, cold turkey? Will the mood in my house pick up? Or will I spontaneously combust?

They are unanimous in their opinion that no one will make fun of me or hate me forever for trying to be friendly