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I don’t judge or view myself against others — except when I interact with Tova
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As parents we hear a lot of “How come we’re the only ones who…” But guess what? You’re not the only ones. It’s normal
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I don’t think husbands of best friends need to be close, or even good friends, but I feel like this is becoming more and more of an issue