"Not every marriage problem originates with mental illness. Not every relationship issue has its roots in childhood trauma. Not every struggling marriage requires therapy"
"Instead of coddling our young adults, why don’t we let them grow up, take responsibility for their feelings, and let them come to the realization that their happiness and content ...
"Whether it’s a hobby, a volunteer activity, or a new job, we need to keep growing. Which will minimize inappropriately turning to our adult children to have our needs met"