“Not all shteiging”? Who, pray tell, whispered in this writer’s ear and informed her who is shteiging and who is not?
Please, please do not minimize and downplay the effects of BPD. I know you mean well, and I believe you that you love and care for those in your family and community. But love is not enough for victims of abuse
“Being single is hard enough. I don’t need to be single and blamed for it”
“Although they are well intentioned, there are inexperienced, unsupervised, and untrained professionals out there who should not be practicing as psychotherapists”
“What if we taught girls how to remain hopeful through the dating process? How to cope with all your friends getting engaged and married while you’re still single?”
“R-E-L-A-X! Let your girls be. Let them start shidduchim when they’re really ready; they’ll be happier, healthier spouses”



















