“What we’re not taught is that there are husbands who are tyrants, which are very different than kings”
“If you were uncomfortable with the story, instead of feeling threatened, you can feel thankful that this message isn’t a lifesaver to you”
“Not every marriage problem originates with mental illness. Not every relationship issue has its roots in childhood trauma. Not every struggling marriage requires therapy”
“Instead of coddling our young adults, why don’t we let them grow up, take responsibility for their feelings, and let them come to the realization that their happiness and contentment depend on themselves?”
“Whether it’s a hobby, a volunteer activity, or a new job, we need to keep growing. Which will minimize inappropriately turning to our adult children to have our needs met”
“Making sure that we are not involved in abusive relationships is critical. Letting that fear color all of our decisions is debilitating”
