It began with a football match and became a minyan, with Rabbi Plancey as coach

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ovember 21 would have marked the 60th wedding anniversary of my grandparents, Rabbi Alan and Rebbetzin Miriam Plancey, who passed away about six months ago. Writing this, emotion wells up in me. To the world, they were Rabbi and Rebbetzin Plancey — pillars of their community, leaders, teachers, role models. But to me, they were Opa and Mormor. And while others saw their public greatness, I was privileged to witness the quiet kind — the greatness that doesn’t demand attention, but radiates through kindness, selflessness, and unwavering dedication.

My grandparents, the rav and rebbetzin of the Borehamwood community, were truly a remarkable couple — beloved not just by our family, but by the entire British Jewish kehillah. They threw themselves into the cause of helping transform Borehamwood into a vibrant Orthodox community.

My grandfather’s public service wasn’t limited to his role as a rav of the  Borehamwood & Elstree shul; his influence went far beyond the shul walls. He was deeply involved in public life, serving as a Hertsmere councilor, twice as mayor, and receiving an MBE (Member of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire) for his public service. He served as a chaplain to the police and to Luton Airport and met various members of the royal family.

My grandmother, the rebbetzin, was the quiet strength behind it all. She was known for her chasadim, empathy, and the countless ways she supported people through every stage of life. She was the heart of the community and the soul of our family.