
The short answer to your question is: You shouldn’t be doing this

Does a part of you feel they may be on to something?

Will he ever be ready to get engaged?

Should I be concerned that just as he flipped out one way, he could also flip the other way at some point after marriage?

He’s a masmid, but is he a mentsh?,Dear “Wants a Mensch”,He’s a masmid, but is he a mentsh?

Am I setting her up for a lifetime of pressure?,